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maristu ([personal profile] maristu) wrote2003-07-21 06:11 pm
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Alone

My husband's moved out yesterday. We weren't doing very well for a long time, but I'm still surprised this happened. I didn't want it to happen... Although I'm the one who brought the subject up, who wanted to analyse our relationship. I'm the one who wasn't happy. But I didn't want him to leave. I wanted couple's therapy or something.

I just got an email from him saying that he's packed most of his clothes, but has to go back for more some other day. Asking if he can keep the laptop. I feel like crying, except I don't have a shoulder to cry on. Everyone thinks I'm fine. I thought I was fine...

I don't know what to do now.

[identity profile] akacat.livejournal.com 2003-07-21 02:23 pm (UTC)(link)
It's probably not a lot of help from this distance but-- {{hug}}

[identity profile] mei-x.livejournal.com 2003-07-21 02:47 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs*

I'm really sorry.

[identity profile] wubba.livejournal.com 2003-07-21 03:06 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs*

I am so so so sorry.

*hugs*

[identity profile] disbelief11.livejournal.com 2003-07-21 03:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Oooh, I'm sorry. I'm having some difficulties with my husband (I also am the one who told him I wasn't happy) but it hasn't gotten to this point yet.

If you ever want to vent, feel free to email me or AIM me - my info's in my user profile. And remember that you are NOT alone.

*Hugs*

Oh sweetie.

[identity profile] barbana.livejournal.com 2003-07-21 03:59 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry to hear that. *HUGS* Is there anything I can do? I had a feeling something like this might happen but I was really hoping I was wrong wrong wrong. DO you think he just needs time to think and he'll be back?

*HUGS YOU AGAIN*

[identity profile] pun.livejournal.com 2003-07-21 03:59 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry to hear about this. It sounds really rough.

(((hugs)))
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[identity profile] mos-self.livejournal.com 2003-07-21 04:31 pm (UTC)(link)
i wish there were something i could say that could help...

{{hugs}}

[identity profile] nerodi.livejournal.com 2003-07-21 06:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh sweetie. I'm so so sorry.

Ugh. Oh, ack! I have nothing to say to make you feel better. Hugs though.

[identity profile] anathema666.livejournal.com 2003-07-21 06:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, that's awful.

*hugs maricats*

I've been there, and it sucks donkey scrotums. Just know that you have friends, and that you'll eventually feel better.

[identity profile] claire.livejournal.com 2003-07-22 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
{{{{Hugs Maricats}}}}

So sorry to hear that my dear. If there's anything I can do, let me know....

{{{{Hugs Maricats again}}}}

[identity profile] tacks.livejournal.com 2003-07-22 04:26 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, I'm so sorry. I send sympathies and crap unhelpful *hugs*.

[identity profile] kstanley.livejournal.com 2003-07-22 07:10 am (UTC)(link)
This is so terrible.

Do you have someone you can stay with? Your mom? A close friend? I think you need someone nearby when you go through this--there is a tendency to go into a bit of shock when this sort of thing happens.

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[identity profile] tacks.livejournal.com 2003-09-05 11:07 am (UTC)(link)
Hey, I just wanted to post another comment to say you've been in my thoughts, and I hope you're doing ok.
*more hugs*
xx